Emmie turned two months this past weekend and we celebrated with a trip to the pool and a date night. Then the next day we did this:
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May Randomness
I love my kids creativity. This slide is from our old play fort. They have also rigged a swing on the inside of the dome. I know. It looks dangerous but they have made sure it was sturdy and Mark checked it as well.
Mad Scientists
More of Emmie
What to do when you’re overdue
Herein lies my photojournal of what we did to keep busy while waiting on Emmie.
Park Day
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| Note construction hat in hand. |
Our last appointment with Dr. J had a longer wait time due to babies being born. Like a two plus hour wait time. Once we realized that he had not one but two deliveries, Mark offered to make a mocha frappe run. Only one other person in the waiting room went for it besides us. It was truly yummy though.
Our homeschool care group end of year party was at the local Kroc Center which just so happens to have an indoor water park. Yes, it was a bit o’ fun!
And two days before Emmie arrived we attended our annual Pops Under the Stars concert by the local symphony. This is a family tradition now. We were expecting rain. And we got it. It rained a bit before the concert and right before the fireworks were supposed to go at the 1812 Overture. No fireworks and no overture but the rest of concert was a hit.
Another Awana Year…Done
We weren’t sure that we would be able to have Awana this year. Our church property is being renovated to work for our church so we have been meeting on Sunday mornings in homes and just were not sure how it would work out. Finally, by October, Mark and I couldn’t stand it and offered up our home as a solution to Awana meetings. Our pastor agreed and Wednesday night activities have taken over our home every week. We, again, are very grateful that we have a home large enough to accommodate meetings and neighbors who have yet to complain about the Wednesday night traffic.
Even though we had a late start and two “weather” days, the kids all worked super hard and so did the leaders.
Our kids were able to finish their books this year with a big push at the end!
One of our illustrious leaders brought her camera and got these awesome pictures.
That’s not a boogie (just need to clarify). He banged his lip on something or other.
This was before he realized he was having his picture taken.
Liam finished his third Sparks book and next year I will have THREE T&Ters (or Boom Bangers as Mark calls them). I feel old.
Malachi was pretty much just a Cubbie mascot this year. We considered him a fourth of a cubbie. But he did everything the Cubbies did and by the end of the year was able to quote verses with a bit of help.
So, this is our ninth year of Awana and our ninth year volunteering. We have truly been blessed and have learned right along with our kids. I love seeing our kids hide God’s Word in their hearts and we know that these words will be with them for the rest of their lives. We’re looking forward to many more years of Awana to come.
Emmie Update
Miss Emmie is now pushing 4 weeks and growing very well. Late last week I started getting breathing counts in the 40s to 50s. I was super excited. She has had a couple in the lower 60s but nothing in the 90s or 100s since Thursday. I contacted Dr. B and she agreed that if her numbers were staying most consistently in normal range, then there was no need to do the modified barium swallow. They are cancelling the test for us. It’s been so nice to see her breathing long slow breaths. Thank you to every one who has been praying for her. We have all felt your prayers.
Now for some adorably cute baby pics:
Twice this week, I have been told that Emmie looks like me. One day soon I’ll put up a picture of me as a babe. Either way, she does bare a striking resemblance to Granddaddy. He was a high school football coach for over 40 years. Some of his players may remember this face.
A New Addition
Emmie’s Birth Story, Part 3
I know this is long but this was way different than Malachi’s birth and I wanted to share. So, bear with me or just ignore.
We decided on a c-section again since Emmie was not coming down and I was not progressing. Since I knew there was a possibility of this happening, I had decided ahead of time to write up a birth plan for a c-section. There weren’t many requests and Dr. J thought I was tad insane that one of them included no strong narcotics. Narcotics do not sit well with me. I get nauseous, feel light headed and weak and just can’t focus in general. I hate it. And with Malachi, I was unable to even hold him. I was so weak, I just knew I would drop him. This was just something I did not want.
Dr. J and the anesthesiologist agreed to my plan and the anesthesiologist even mentioned that morphine, which is commonly given, could make people throw up. So, he agreed to give me something a little lighter and they all agreed to treat me with toradol for pain after. The only thing that I was concerned about after talking to them was whether Emmie would be able to stay with me after she was born. That all depended on the pediatric nurse. I was so nervous when she came in to talk to us about it. She sat down while getting suited up and said she had no problem with that as long as Emmie was doing fine. Relief washed over me. I knew I could endure the surgery and finishing up if I could just see my sweet baby.
I did get nauseous during surgery but every time I did the good doctor with the drugs gave me something and it took it away instantly. That made the poking and prodding go a lot smoother. It was a bit more uncomfortable but I attribute that to Emmie’s size and how high up she was. I could tell that the attending doctor was having to push pretty hard to get her out. When Dr. J was delivering her he kept saying, “Oh yeah, there was no way she was coming out the other way.” She was just too high up and too big.
Once he got her out, he held her up and everyone laughed. “That’s their baby alright!” He exclaimed. “Big and pink!”
She had to be suctioned out a bit but only once and she just screamed to get the rest out. After the nurse watched her for a bit Mark brought her around to meet me. That was the cutest set of cheeks attached to one of the cutest babies I’ve ever seen. Mark got her hand lose so I could hold it and we were able to enjoy a bit of time while waiting on them to finish. Every one was very curious how much she weighed. The anesthesiologist kept saying she had to be taken to the loading docks because she was so big.
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| Obviously, she was super thrilled to be out. |
Once in the room, the pediatric nurse weighed her and squeezed her in to a newborn diaper (apparently, we all forgot to communicate to the nurse that she was going to be big). And asked if I wanted to do skin to skin to breast feed. I have never held any of our babies skin to skin. It just was never offered and I never thought about it. So, I agreed and the nurse handed Emmie to me and she latched right on. That was the coolest thing of the whole labor. Snuggling up to my sweet baby skin to skin and getting to know her one on one. It was a very special time. Our nurse pretty much just left us alone. Because I wasn’t loaded up on drugs, I felt like I could really enjoy this time. I was tired, of course, but this was just the sweetest time for us.
After a couple of hours, the nurse came in and finished up getting her vitals and vitamin k shot and then Mark got to give her a bath. Since, I was stuck in bed trying to feel my legs, the nurse grabbed my camera and took a ton of pictures for me.
I have to say this nurse was the best pediatric nurse we have ever had. She was so mom and baby friendly and so willing to make sure we had a good time bonding with each other.
Unfortunately, it was several hours before we got to go to our postpartum room. With the more babies you have there is more concern for postpartum hemorrhage, so the nurses had to make sure I was stable before letting us go to a room. Emmie had a very hard time settling down and by 2 am I had enough. Being awake for virtually 24 hours did not bode well for my emotional status but eventually they were able to finally clear us to move to a room to try and rest. Shortly thereafter, Emmie settled down and we got what little sleep we could.
Emmie’s Birth Story, Part 2
If you missed it, check out part one here.





































































