How Does Your Garden Grow…

Like we don’t have enough to do…I finally decided this year was the year we would start learning to garden.  However, we decided not to go it alone.  While Mark and I ventured out on our Babymoon, we enlisted the help of a very generous Papa. 

But, before we left, there was some hard labor to do…

and Mark was recruited for the job.  Now, our goal was not to create this elaborate garden.  Just a small garden that we can “cut our teeth on.” 

Ace was a big help and enjoyed working with Papa and Daddy.

Actually, all the kids got in to it.  Here they are digging into an impromptu compost pile and getting some good soil!

Papa not only showed them how to get the garden started but also taught them about life using object lessons from the garden.

This is built outside of our very small back yard, so we wanted a fence around it to keep neighbor cats and critters out of.

The kids have been very diligent in their watch care over the garden.  When weeds just started peeping out, I was ordered told that we needed to weed.  Out we went, and Zoe and Ace went to work.  No bending from me was needed.

And their hard work is paying off.  This isn’t a recent picture of the garden but one from two to three weeks ago.  As of now, we have about 20 squash buds and two to three already forming squash.  The tomato plants (we have about three) are yielding about 10 little green tomatoes.  The kids are super excited to see the plants grow each day we go out to water.  This has been a great starter.  I’ve still got to run to the hardware store and pick up a few herb plants to add to it.   Stay tuned to see how our garden grows!

By the way, if you know anything about me, you know that I am not a gardener!  This is a big accomplishment for me and I’m hoping to continue on in our efforts.

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Sharing…

This is Mark with his grandmom.  We call her Mama Maude and she’s pretty special to both Mark and I.  Special, not only because she’s the only living grandmom we both have.  But special to me because while in college, I worked in her town as youth/children director.  I got to see and spend a lot of time with and near her. 

She’s a remarkable woman too.  After her husband passed away, when her children were young, she worked as a hair dresser and was able to raise up two wonderful children.  And because of her hard work…Mark is here now!

Mama Maude’s had a tough year this year.  We’ve enjoyed seeing her and she enjoys, I think, all the little ones that run around.  We cherish each visit we get with her.  It’s not only a chance for us to love on her but also a chance for our children to meet someone truly special…who has lived an amazing life. 

When Mark and I were engaged, we narrowed our wedding date down to two days.  One in May and then one in December.  When Mama Maude asked us about the date, we mentioned the two dates.  She smiled, nostalgia like, and said, “Oh May 20th is my anniversary.”  That was it.  Our date was set!  Not only was that her anniversary but our date would have been her 50th Anniversary (if my memory serves me correctly).

I’m so grateful that we are able to share our anniversary with two special people in Mark’s life.  We are reminded of the commitment we have made and the commitment that was made so many years ago to serve God and each other.

This was an impromptu photo shoot with Mama Maude, thus the missing children.
Mark did manage to round up our bunch to make sure they each got a picture before she had to leave though.

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Ten Years Ago…

…I started on a journey with an amazing man.  I never could have forseen what God would do in and through our lives over the past ten years.  But I wouldn’t trade it for anything!  Lots of ups and downs and twists and turns and He has worked in our lives to grow us closer to Him and each other. 

Thank you for being an amazing, doting, and handsome husband…for putting up with my emotional rants and being the rock that grounds me!…for being willing and insistent on night time parenting so I can stay somewhat sane during the day…for never complaining when things are tough and I’m sick (or growing a baby) and you have to do two jobs at once…for supporting and leading our family, through homeschooling, and discipling our children….for telling me I look pretty and am the most beautiful woman in the world…even when I’ve gained 50 plus pounds during a pregnancy!

I cherish each day we are able to spend as husband and wife.

I pray that I am able to serve you more as a godly wife should.  Thank you for setting the standards for me to be the wife and mom our family needs and God has called me to!

I love you, always and forever, no matter what, I promise!

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The Great Adventure

We found out, through our super homeschool group, that Six Flags was offering a homeschool day with incredibly discounted tickets.  Never one to pass up a deal and also wanting Josiah to play in Thomas Town, we signed up and got our tickets!  Now, the fact that I was 29 weeks pregnant and that, as the day approached, we found out it was going to be the hottest and most humid day of Spring did not stop us.  The minute we stepped out the car, we all started sweating.  The two goals of the day quickly became, stay hydrated, and have fun (in that order)!

I think we accomplished both.

This was the first ride we got to before heading to Thomas Town.  Needless to say, Josiah and Liam were not impressed with the ride.  They lightened up though and rode all the rides in the kids area, including the family roller coaster (with Mark, of course…I got to hang out with Ceili Rain in the shade).

Thomas Town was pretty neat.  There was basically a playground and then a kid size Thomas Train with Annie and Clarabel as the passenger cars.  That was it.  But the kids didn’t care.  They had a blast.

Mark and I were trying to figure out how to introduce the kids to roller coasters without making them wish to never get on one again.  So, we opted for the Mine Train (this is before we found the family coaster).  Needless to say, since it’s been over 10 years since we’ve been, we forgot how jumpy and rickety that train was.  Ace was not happy having been bumped around the whole time.  Zoe loved it and wanted to go again. 

We opted to hit one more coaster on the way out to eat lunch.  And off she went with Dad to the Georgia Cyclone.  No fear at all in her eyes.  There was no line so they got right on.  And when they got off, Mark commented about how jerky that one was.  Zoe said it was “Okay.”  Mark seemed to think she got a little apprehensive after the first big drop.

Unfortunately, that was the last roller coaster we hit.  We traveled to the Looney Tunes area after lunch and then hit a few other things before they closed for the day.  I think Zoe would have done the Mind Bender but we just didn’t have time.  She has seen it and Goliath from the interstate for the past seven years and has wanted to ride them.  She wasn’t quite tall enough for Goliath (and Mark has to build up his courage for that one…it’s tall and goes throughout the whole park and even outside the park).  And she couldn’t do any of the stand up rides (she didn’t even want to try the Batman ride).  I was so proud of her and Ace being willing to try the different rides.  They are so much more courageous than I was at their age!

Even Josiah and Liam showed no fear getting on some of the rides…and they were a little sad when they saw they were too short for the rides that Zoe and Dad did. 

I snuck on to a couple of rides with the kids too!

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Racin’

Our Men’s Ministry at church recently hosted a race car driver and dinner.  Actually, our church is one of the sponsors of this driver.  He’s not on the big Nascar circuit but he’s working on that…and I think he is racing in a Nascar circuit…I don’t know enough about racing to know.  Anyways, the boys really enjoyed an opportunity to see a real live race car and Mama enjoyed an opportunity to hang out with my girls and get some work done (and enjoy ice cream with my big girl)…

Okay, turn your head sideways again.  Sorry about these.  Anyway, check out Free Pennington and cheer him on.  He’s a Christian who seems willing to share his testimony wherever he goes!  Plus, he’s got a really cool name.

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BFF

Almost two years ago one very hot and humid August, Mark and I were sitting at Chick-fil-a with four kids who were really busy running, jumping, and screaming in the play area.  It was a nice break as I had just learned I was pregnant with Ceili Rain and I needed some breathing time.  As we sat there, I glanced over at a table near us and did a head count of kids…hmmm, I thought, this lady has almost as many as we do…and they’re all close in age.  As is normal for my crew, they made friends right away (but never got their names).  As is normal for me, I never really said much to the couple that cradled their baby and ran interference with the other two.

About a month later, I was a greeter at church helping get people to and from nursery/childcare rooms etc.  And in walks this family…with three children, close in age to my kids.  Hmmm…I soon realized this was the same family from Chick-fil-a.  I told them so and I think they thought I was just a little weirdo for remembering them.. 

Their daughter, who is Zoe’s age, had a tough adjustment but seemed to calm down some when I told her Zoe was her age and in her class.  I soon shuffled the mom and dad off to our Sunday school class as well. 

And even though, I was a little weird, they kept coming back!  And not even a month after attending our church, the mom, Kristina, announces she is pregnant with #4…and due the same month I am. 

Thus, started a wonderful friendship!  We’ve laughed together, cried together, listened to each other scream at their children together.  Add in that they started homeschooling this past year, and we’ve enjoyed all the adventures that come with that together. 

Most of our time spent together has centered around our kids…whether it’s braving the pool and daring the other to watch the kids while going on a bathroom run….dragging them all through Hobby Lobby…throwing them in the backyard so we can talk…or sewing up some cute (and probably annoying to some) matching outfits for our girls. 

And now…today, they are heading out of town.  The dad, J, is in the army and is being transferred to a foreign land (okay, it’s not foreign but when you’ve only lived in two states anything outside of that might as well be).

I really feel that we’ve built a life long friendship with this family.  We’re already working out arranged marriages for the kids.  And planning vacations together. 

Kristina thinks like I do…but on a much more laid back scale.  Mark is a lot like J in that they are computer “geeks” and don’t have to say a lot to get their points across. Our kids have always been instant friends.  Sure, they can fight like siblings but they can also love on each other and bring smiles to each other in a heartbeat.

To say they’re going to be missed is an understatement.  The kids have already dubbed this month the “sad” month.  This is the first real group of friends they have had move.

I know, I could write a thousand more words here to talk about my friendship with Kristina and her family…but it’s late and I don’t want to cry all over the keyboard and make a big sopping mess…just know, my dear friends, that we love you and will always be praying for you and can’t wait for you to come down to meet little Bryant! (and for us to come up and invade your home)

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A WHOLE Bunch of Characters

Waaaay back in April, we headed to Papa & Grandmere’s house for a quick weekend family visit and to celebrate Mark’s home church’s 50th Anniversary.  Now, by family, I mean us, Papa & Grandmere and Mark’s brother Uncle B and his family.

Isn’t the picture above cool?!  Uncle B put it together with a special gadget on their camera and editing software.  Don’t look too closely though, or you’ll see some “ghost” figures in the pic.

Now on to the fun we had that weekend!

Lawnmower riding…and driving.  Eight kids in the wagon…Two kids driving (Cousin J helped Ace drive the lawnmower).  Number Eleven was taking a much needed nap so she missed out.

Uncle B teaching Liam how to drive.  That’s just a little bit of a scary thought.
BaseGolf…a new game for toddlers!
Cousin G looking all grown up.
Cousin O as busy as ever.
The pregnant mamas deep in conversation.  This was right before we headed out to find some good deals at some yard sales and ending up at a children’s consignment sale where I found a crib for $45 and a mattress for $6 and Aunt B found a stroller/infant carrier for under $20.  That was just awesome!
Papa’s enjoying teaching all the grandkids to play games.  First up was Uno…later in the afternoon they played Monopoly or “Mono-Poly” as the kids call it.
And no post is complete without one of the twins…here is one (can’t name because all I can see is the top of the head…I need the face to name him) sharing with Ceili Rain.  She thought it was pretty cool to be outside but not have to put her feet on the grass.

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Bryant, BJ or Bry

Little BJ, by far the youngest of the bunch…since he’s still about negative 10 weeks old.  He’s a strong little boy…from making it through some unsure times (me being diagnosed with low progesterone…him sharing space with a blood clot for a few weeks)…to showing off his kicking ability starting at around 16 weeks.  I have not doubt he’s going to be a strong little one from the moment we meet him.  All I can say about his personality is that he’s full force go at it gusto most of the day and sleeps pretty well at night (unless I wake up or move…then all bets are off for a few minutes).  He’s already treasured and loved and adored by his brothers and sisters (well, at least the one sister who knows what’s going on).

We are getting excited, as each day draws us nearer to meeting our newest member.  He is, like all our children, a sweet blessing from God. 

*Photography by Kimberly S. Busby Photography…she did some creative editing on this one…and it looks great!*

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Ceili Rain (CeiRai)

Our second little princess….adored by brothers and sister alike…most would think she’s a little “spoiled.”  However, if by “spoiled” you mean that she was left out like food and forgotten…she’s far from that.

She’s our bruiser and most fearful of all.

She’s our “little surprise”  that has turned into a wonderful blessing and makes me enjoy God’s surprises better than my “best laid plans.”

She loves her Raffe the Giraffe and drags him all over the house (we have to wash him at least twice a week).

She loves food…hasn’t met any that she doesn’t like to eat.

And she’s our most interesting with her first words being “Uh oh” and “Hello.”

And smiles…she loves to get them as much as she loves to give them.

Our only prayer is that she learns to walk before Baby Bryant arrives!

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